Ryan being the first baby in our immediate family received a lot of fuss and attention. Long discussions were held on his life path and bright future. The only conclusion that came from all those talks was that we are all dreamers.
Years ago, I was casually chatting with Ryan’s mother on Ryan’s love life when he grows up. Personally I’m conservative liberal, so whoever Ryan would choose as his partner would be generally fine by me.
If nothing else, he’d have his xiao yi’s emotional support 😉
So my sister and I were going on about Ryan’s romantic future. “What if he likes a guy?” I asked, “Would you be okay with it?” “Yes of course!” she exclaimed, “We’ll support him in his decisions!”
She turned to Ryan’s father and said, “If Ryan is gay, we must support him, okay!!!”
He turned around and asked in a serious tone, “What do you mean support? Pay for his sex change operation??”