Comments on: the people you love make you a different person

By: The Envoy

The Envoy — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 14:49:29 +0000

You melt my hardened heart a little.

By: whimsicaljottings

whimsicaljottings — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 08:48:15 +0000

Sorry to hear abt yr grandma, hope she gets better. When my dad was sick with cancer, I had to bring him to the toilet, supported him while he peed, bathed him, and towards the end, change his diaper. While the icky part – poop and pee, didnt get to me, it was more the fact that I was a female doing this that bothered me a little. I would ask the nurses for their help with the diaper only coz it was too hard to do it by myself. In the end, I lost all sense of “geliness”. My dad said a few times what a bother he was to us, giving us so many problems, but I tell you, when you love a person, it comes naturally. And when that person is no longer around, you know that you have done your best and have no regrets whatsoever. I hope my dad is proud of me.

By: eiling

eiling — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 02:25:58 +0000

Thanks for sharing this. I’ll start by taking care of some babies.

By: foodcrazee

foodcrazee — Sun, 26 Jul 2009 00:54:52 +0000

I mellowed down so much once i have me kiddo. .. . . . .love is blind as they say and it is the strongest of all feelings

By: christock

christock — Sat, 25 Jul 2009 11:56:42 +0000

yes, yes. it is the same for me, but you put it so damn well it shames even my thoughts on it..

By: julian

julian — Sat, 25 Jul 2009 04:15:30 +0000

The more love you give, the more you get – it’s the one thing that’s truly infinite

Hope your grandmother is feeling better.

By: J

Fri, 24 Jul 2009 07:49:00 +0000

True. I do the same with my nephews. i hand them back whenever they start to smell. The weird thing is. I didn’t mind doing it for my cats last time. When my dad’s mum was sick i see MY mom looking after her. And not my dad. All my dad could do was watch and feeling hurt inside. I could see it in his face.

I too do want to be able to take care of them. Which sometimes leaves me with guilt every time i visit them.

By: Cheesie

Cheesie — Fri, 24 Jul 2009 03:50:36 +0000

very true lo. T_T

By: Suanie

Suanie — Fri, 24 Jul 2009 03:48:59 +0000

FA:

frostier: hahaha. i know people say it’s different when it’s your own child. but no one believes me when i tell them i don’t want kids of my own. sure i love ryan and selected other children, but i can give them back to their folks after i’m done playing with them. don’t have to worry about their next meal, their kindergarten etc, wake up in the middle of the night bla bla bla. i don’t want to do it all

ky: can’t do. how can i tahan someone else who’s emo, when i have my own emo to kau tim??

By: KY

KY — Fri, 24 Jul 2009 01:59:13 +0000

so maybe in a few more years, u’ll not mind having an emo bf