i have nothing to say (not much anyway)

Chinese New Year coming soon. I’ve been tasked with locating CNY songs and I have done nuts about it. I told my sister, wtf I’ll sing the tunes, and she happily agreed, saying that she’d record them down and play them continuously. I’m pretty sure she was joking.

Don’t know about you, but I have not been feeling much of the CNY spirit for a few years now. I guess everyone goes through this phase at some point in their lives. Then last year became a little different, because Ryan was old enough to be going around ‘gong xi fa chai, hong bao na lai’ so that was fun. This year we’ve got him trained real good; beware!

I suppose I’ll be back in Batu Pahat for nearly a week. A couple of months ago, my high school friends already sent out mass e-mails to have an annual CNY gathering. So I’m going to that one. There’s the traditional CNY reunion dinner of course. More meals with relatives from both mom and dad’s side of the family. Hopefully can meet up with my old Young Buddhist Fellowship friends. Maybe might slip in a day trip to JB if time permits, and persuade Pinky to come over the dark JB side :D

I guess the two things that dampen my enjoying CNY are:

1) The fat and ‘prosperous’ remarks. Trust me, I know I am fat. I do own a mirror. I am under no illusions that I am not fat. Oprah came by my house last night and couldn’t believe how fat I was. I do not know how else to stress upon you that I am very much aware of my physical build. The fact that I am not doing anything about it is irrelevant. So it’s very tiring for me to put on a fake smile and agree with certain extended relatives that I’ve indeed piled on the pounds.

“WOW YOU REALLY PILED ON THE POUNDS!”
“Hahaha, yes I know.”
“I MEAN, REALLY, REALLY GAINED SO MUCH WEIGHT!”
“Hahaha, yeah what to do.”
“NO, I MEAN, SERIOUSLY YOU ARE SO FAT NOW.”

No, I didn’t hear you the first time round when you were screaming it out so why don’t you just go on about it.

2) I felt embarrassed to receive ang pows when I was 24 years old. That was 3 years ago. Go figure.

Ah well. Guess I just have to suck it all up, like I do every year. Filled out one blog post, aye? ;)

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